What’s the matter with being different? Why do people sometimes feel the need to be “normal” and fit in with society?
I felt different when I was a child. I was self-conscious about my appearance and didn’t feel like I fit in with others. Since I was tall for my age, children frequently teased me about this. I wasn’t popular and I had a few friends.
As I get older and hopefully wiser, I don’t have that need to fit in. I’m happy being myself and don’t try to be something that I’m not. That’s the message that I want to impart upon my readers.
I get a lot of email asking me if this or that is a highly sensitive exclusive characteristic. Sure, we highly sensitive people take in everything more emotionally and physically than others, but we’re not unlike others that have their insecurities.
When you really think about, we’re all different! What would this world be like if we were all the same? Boring and unproductive! It takes “different people” to come up with interesting, unique, and innovative ways of living and doing things.
Why not celebrate your uniqueness, rather than be self-conscious and berate and hide your differences? Don’t be afraid to be yourself. Your true friends will accept you the way you are.
In what ways do you feel different? Has this hurt or helped you? What can you do to utilize your unique qualities? I’m interested in any thoughts or comments that you have.